You choose war over peace, because…

  …you don’t even realize what you’re doing. “We have drama-filled lives because of fears that peace is boring. There’s a lot of reinforcement in the media for this belief, with every television show and movie filled with conflict and drama. I discovered this personally when TV producers at three different networks separately contacted me […]


Listen to UNDERSTAND, not just to REPLY

                That’s exactly the thing I need to make clear over and over again… As a coach I’ve been doing it for so, so many years…   If you learn  to listen to understand, and if you really listen – with all your senses – eventually you WILL […]


Funny advice: 5 ways to a miserable life

  1. STRIVE TO BE PERFECT Remind yourself at every occasion that you’ve got to get this perfectly right or you will never be approved of/loved/included or respected. That sounds like a fun way of going about things. 2. COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS By judging yourself and others, you’ll either get to feel smug or […]


Goods exchange, swap and alternative money communities II.

The coming topic is one that makes me enthusiastic. I’ve got the impression that Suska (pron. Shooshka) and all the similar movements have a very important key role in the process of transforming our society to a much more humane form. So I felt that this article cannot remain left out of my website either. […]


Goods exchange, swap and alternative money communities I.

The coming topic is one that makes me enthusiastic. I’ve got the impression that Suska (pron. Shooshka) and all the similar movements have a very important key role in the process of transforming our society to a much more humane form. So I felt that this article cannot remain left out of my website either. […]


Throw the bones

If you observe the way how something happens over and over again, soon you start to find out the connections between certain details and you discover how it works. Even if you have a lot of questions and things you can’t explain and neither you have any evidence if it works, still you observe it […]


Use the questionmark

  I remember how wise I was when I was a kid. Asking the most logical questions and becoming more and more frustrated when I saw I can’t find answers and realizing I was living in a totally crazy world… I even started to think there was something wrong with me.. Like most people I […]


How to be positive indeed?

  To be positive. What does this really mean?  First let’s take a look at what it doesn’t mean.       It doesn’t mean that you don’t express your emotions if they are “negative” you don’t consider / acknowledge the actual problem you smile even if you are full of negative feelings and act […]


Plant the seeds of joy!

Well, I think this is the kind of collection which is demonstrative enough…     …to persuade you that you don’t need any suffering in life.  “Suffering is only necessary until you realize it is unnecessary!” “This inner alignment with Now is the end of suffering.” ~ Eckhart Tolle “Suffering is an unnecessary aspect of the […]


How to Install Love

(Source: Unknown) Customer Service Rep: Can you install LOVE?Customer: I can do that. I’m not very technical, but I think I am ready to install now. What do I do first? CS Rep: The first step is to open your HEART. Have you located your HEART ma’am? Customer: Yes I have, but there are several programs running right […]